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Memories: How Your Memories Can Trick You – and What To Do About It… — 18 Comments

  1. Isabelle,
    This is so fascinating. I can totally relate to this. Like remembering a dream when you wake up but then not remembering it 2 hours later. Or putting my keys down but not remembering where i put them.

    I wonder if marketing people study this technique to replace our memories? Probably don’t you think?

    Just one question what is “taking the mickey ?” Does it mean, taking drugs?

    • Hi Annie,

      I’m not sure marketing people use this to replace or alter our memories. But, what they definitely do is look into what is going to make us memorize their ad/product better (music, rhyming words, colours,…). That too is fascinating. I wish marketing people didn’t use these tricks for sugar loaded unhealthy products. But, that’s a different subject!

      As for taking the mickey! Sorry, being French, I don’t always realize what is English, what is American. It means to tease or make fun of.

      Take care
      Isabelle

      • Isabelle,
        I hate that about the advertising companies. My daughter is totally impressed by the back of cereal boxes. At least here in France, the boxes are up high. But back in the US and Canada, they put the boxes at childrens eye level for children to see and then bug their parents.

        ps.
        I hear you about what is englisha and american words.

        I have the same issue with quebecois french and French from France. So many words here in France we don’t use in Quebec. For instance, we don’t say “le parking” in Quebec, we say “stationnement”. Or we don’t say “bon weekend”. We say “bon fin de semaine”.
        the best one was when i said “Je suis plein” which in quebec means i am full but here in France as you know is kind of vulgar.
        Oh well. I could go on but you get the point.

        Hope you and Alan have a “bon weekend”…

        • Hi Annie,

          I actually love the fact that Quebecois seems to have less English words than French: ‘fin de semaine’ instead of week-end, canneberge instead of cranberry. What a lovely singing accent too. Interesting how languages evolve differently from the same basis in a point in time long ago.

          Bonne fin de semaine!

  2. Isabelle,

    I always thought I had a bad memory but come to think of it I bet I am just not noting what I believe is important at that moment. Which in fact actually makes the situation worse because if it was an important event then I should be paying attention.

    This article has really helped me realize what I need to do if I need to remember something-definitely clear my mind and pay attention.

    ~Allie

    • Hi Allie,

      Paying attention is good for learning but it’s also good for important events, like you said.
      It’s also good for everyday life.
      I’m definitely the type who cannot double-task. If my mind is cluttered, I won’t remember where I put my keys or if I did lock that door.
      I would end up in my car thinking… did I lock that door?… better return to check.
      Now, I really pay attention… it saves me time πŸ™‚

      Take care
      Isabelle

  3. Hey Isabelle,

    there was actually something on TV last night that I half-watched between falling asleep and trying to fix the kitchen tap which was about people who remember almost every day of their lives in vivid detail.

    I think it was called something like ‘The Boy Who Couldn’t Forget’ or something similar – you should try and catch it on iPlayer or something.

    A similar kind of science/research to what you discussed in the post and with Jeevan was mentioned, but something about these people was apparently different where most people eventually forget things/lose them from long term memory, they just didn’t. One of the scientists claimed it was because they had added ‘Reward/Drivers’ in terms of being obsessed with their own past lives.

    Anyways – it was interesting stuff – see if you can find it!

    πŸ˜‰

  4. Isabelle, thanks a lot for sharing this with us.

    You forgot to mention something important in your tips to help remember better. A good memory starts with a good diet and PLENTY of water! Brain function, including memory, cannot take place without the proper amount of hydration. Most people do not truly understand how much our brains are affected by water. The brain cannot store water, so it is vital that we drink up and drink often. A shriveled and dried out brain will not function at its maximum capacity like a well-hydrated brain can.

    I have just released a Kindle book on the subject.

    Isabelle, if you don’t mind, I would like to share it with your readers. I have setup a page where I will be giving 7 copies for free every day until next Wednesday.

    http://nutritiongang.com/contest/superfoods-power/

    Take care
    Charles

  5. Hi Isabelle!
    remember to the memory of the past event can’t be 100%.and i think some event like happy occasion,big grief and any surprising event can be remain in our mind but everything is impossible.great blog.
    thanks for sharing this blog.

    • Hi Anshul,
      Strong emotions (negative or positive) definitely help remember things. So do rituals where you take an active part (rituals in the sense of repeated traditions – it could be a family ritual at Christmas for instance or Sunday family gatherings…). Stress can also help you remember.
      Memories are a vast and complex subject and one that we’ll probably explore more in future articles.
      Many thanks for your comment.
      Isabelle

      • Hi Isabelle!
        i will do ritual means observance in your opinion and will try to discusion with my family and friends about my past incident and remember the event.

  6. Memories.

    We can’t trust everything we remember, can we?

    πŸ˜‰

    I had learned about this phenomenon in my psychology class (Surprisingly, they also used the 9/11 example to demonstrate this). Memories change.

    Actually, we change them according to our will (Well, not will, we could explain it as something our sub-conscious would do). We want the memory to be something else, even though we know that wasn’t the truth (but, over time, like you said, the memory changes).

    Emotions are the most powerful objects/elements of our life – and we can use them, in a manner of our choosing (like you said, it is surprising that we could convince ourselves of a lie to be truth using different senses and emotions).

    It’s scary too.

    How we could change.

    As with retaining memory, can we really do that for all our memories? I doubt that, but we could use it for important things.

    For instance, a student could use it to study something, right? To retain it in their memory (the forgetting curve is very steep, so we need to rehearse it again and again to retain it).

    Anyways, appreciate your thoughts, Isabelle (and thank you for making those neurons – on what I learned from psychology – active again :D)

    • Hi Jeevan,

      It is scary stuff indeed that you can’t 100% rely on your memories but, at the same time, extremely useful knowledge to have – especially, like you said, to help you memorize what you need to learn.
      I’d always found the idea of the film Total Recall (the original back in the 90s – I haven’t seen the latest one) interesting… implanting fake memories of holidays so you feel like you had those holidays (at a fraction of the cost!) – blurring your reality at the same time.
      I’ll stick to the real stuff and taking photos to help me remember!

      Best wishes
      Isabelle

        • I like all these tips to help remember. Keep them coming!
          Personally, I take photos. I’m always surprised at how clearly I remember past events but not just how young my kids used to be at that time.

          • Hi Charles,

            Do share! We totally agree with the message of drinking more water.
            Send us a book too please (isabelle@lifestoogood.net). We’d love to read it.

            Thanks
            Isabelle

            • Hi Isabelle

              Thank you. I have just sent you the book through the gifting system of Amazon. You should receive an email from them within the next few minutes πŸ™‚

              Would love to hear what you think about it.

              Take care
              Charles

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