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Office Politics: How To Deal With Office Politics — 4 Comments

  1. Alan – you covered a lot of ground here! Context is key, isn’t it? I find there are certain groups in the office who find comfort in backbiting – like they are driven by a common enemy. 9 times out of 10, if these people were confronted with the person they were talking about, they would not repeat any of it!

    I don’t think it’s ‘ok’ if they let off steam like that, so I don’t get involved.

    With perception, it’s important to take time to see the other person’s perspective. When I first moved to Paris, I was concerned about my colleagues not involving me in social events in the office. It took me some time, but I eventually realised it’s because they were embarrassed about their level of English, and had nothing to do with my personality.

    You’re right – this IS a huge topic, and one I could talk about for hours. Looking forward to reading further articles on this from you, and happy to contribute if this helps.

    • You’re right and half the time the people indulging in a little gossip or backbiting don’t realize how hurtful it is if they were to be overheard by the person they’re talking about.

      I like your example about your French colleagues too – often things aren’t what they seem when it comes to perception – again, because a) we all have our own view of the world and b) we’re often pretty hard on ourselves when trying to work out what something ‘means’ (such as your colleagues not involving you in social events).

  2. Good point Sarah, though it’s not only gossip/office politics that happens by the water cooler – sometimes people do some really good networking there too.

    Personally I don’t think we should feel like we have to avoid anywhere (such as the water cooler) due to something like office politics, but I do take your point – it’s an option.

  3. Great tips. I have found that the best way to avoid conflict is to just stay out of it. You can also make more of your work professional, which helps avoid these “water cooler conversations” where these things tend to arise.

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